Tuesday, 4 September 2012



Hide and Seek…….

Do u remember when we all were very young we used to play game called hide and seek with all our friends ,that was the most favorite game of mine because I use hide and my friend used to have tough time in finding me and I was always happy as I was rarely caught  by my  friends . As I entered school I started playing hide and seek with my some older friends well they were never my friends but still ..
                 I entered school and the teachers who use to tech me ,most of them knew my parents and that was tough time for me as I never liked any body to have eye on me, that to  because of my parents , same thing happened in collage though high school was safer, as we were new but as I entered collage my parents have become old in the town, and some how when u live in small town everyone knows everyone! and collage was the toughest time for me , I was average grader ,I was not that good with my marks , it was hard for my teachers to notice mi because of my marks I was not poor but not gre8 I was good average student ,though most of the students knew mi because of may talkative nature but teachers did not knew me of except my roll number , I always use to play hide and seek with them J
                                             I use to come late for collage ,” I loved bunking classes , I never completed my assignments on time , I use to sit on last bench in the girls row” in all I was bad student in every teachers eye but I was happy in my world and I was not ready to give up my world anyhow , I used to love walking around collage with my friends I had a very low profile in my teachers eye . In every collage, school every teacher have their favorite bunch of students I was never their, I never fit in that group of favorite students and the “game of hide and seek” was on till I entered the last year of collage
                 Their was an old teacher with great command on her subject it was hard to bunk her classes or practical she too had her favorite bunch of students , and I was still playing hide and seek with her , but as my father says “ Bhagwan Ram ka janam Ravan ko khatam karne ke liye hi huwa tha , har chiz ka ant karne ke liye koi na koi jarur ata hai “ and she was their with her full force to end my long game of “hide and seek “ , in my fathers eye it was my time , I don’t know how and why one day she shouted my name in the class ,I was shocked because she use to call me by my roll number and today she was calling me by name I shook my head in disbelieve and stood up , and she said why u have not submitted ur assignment copy yet ? as students whenever any teacher gives any kind of assignment we students have habit of asking last date we never care about the topic of assignment it was always that last date which is more important J, and I replied mam last date to kal hai na and whole class laughed at me , I shamelessly answered that question  , then she said never mind tomorrow sharp 11 am copy on my desk , I reached home that day and ask my parents if they know her I was so angry on them, I thought they knew her but they very clearly said they do not know her , I closed the topic .
                                             As I never wanted to have conversation with her I reached collage before her and placed my copy on her table and ran , after that day it was hard suddenly my old days was gone, she knew mi very well , she started shouting at me because of my marks and my assignments , she even gave my name for some collage competition without telling mi ,my friends start teasing mi “are tu to ma'am ki favorite ban gae” it was new to me and suddenly I started performing good in all subjects , my marks improved , I become good grader in short span of two to three months , may  be because of her , I never liked when she use to shout on me in front of all class, to stop that shouting I started improving my grades , and in the game of hide and seek I was on  losing side , I never lost a game with any teacher but in this case I was lucky loser , and as I always wanted to finish things by my own , I decide to meet ma'am , on last day of collage I visited her I knocked on the door she said come in …..
                                  After 5 min of silence I started speaking u know what i  rarely I fail to find words but that day it was different story, and with my full force I started speaking ma'am I never liked the idea of teachers being over friendly with students, I never talked with any of them till this day, I don’t know how, why for whatever reason u noticed mi , and I don’t even want to know , I just want to say thanks for noticing me, I don’t think I would have improved my grades if u haven't noticed me, for me it was big thing ,thanks for everything and I gave her chocolate packed in box with thanking note , and she did not said a word till I reach the door she said so in the game of hide and seek who wins me or u???
“I did not say a word just gave her smile and left the cabin” finally I ended my hide and seek with my teachers, and in my heart I know I have lost to her but I call my self a lucky loser  

ps. : dedicated to my most favorite teacher

Happy teachers day everyone!!!

Anshita P

Saturday, 7 July 2012

                                     Because Of Na Bole Tum  

                                   Being a tv fan from long time, i was never known that their is whole different world out their ,when i use to watch tv's saas bahu shows ,i use to thought i m the only one who watch these shows others r all mummy's and aunts, am i idiot? though i was sports freak and still i am ,i never come across a tv lover of my age for long time ..i never watched tv show for many days , in the starting they seems nice but after few weeks they become all same, they never had that charm to hold mi but when Na bole tum was launched in January , and due to Rafael Nadals loss in Australian open final i  badly needed something which can divert my attention and nbt happened to mi .......nanhi guru mohan become part pf my life. 

                                            I never have been so involved with any tv show since jassi jaisi bt, when i started watching NBT tr was something about that show due to which i started surfing net, for nbt news and Google suggested me India forum. when i joined this site for Nbt, what i found out was unbelievable! tr are so many people who takes these shows seriously ,they follow them passionately they just not watch them because tr mums r watching it ,on India forum i joined Nbt and tr was so many amazing people, who love show they have tr own view about the show, and they do not hesitate to show what they think about it, they will hate them when things go wrong ,but they will love them when they r happy ,i met  Jumana who have her video gallery for nbt she have created many vm  on na bole tum  ,well their are many but she is the one i have came across,  then their is shamil who have her version of Nbt she has such gre8 seance of humor, their r so many people i can not name everyone they have created their own world about nbt on net which was totally unknown to mi still na bole tum came just because of them i started editing and creating videos .. 

Then their r so many crazy Facebook fans of kunal karan kapoor ,never thought that any tv hero is so much loved and adored by his fans,  i have seen so many bt one caught  my eye her name is Kunal ki gopi isha can u believe it that's her fb name ,she got so angry with ongoing track that she created a group on Facebook to stop whats going to happened in the show, for mi kunal karan kapoor is new superstar performer who have joined my list of favourite  superstar performer after Rafael Nadal and kim clijsters i just love the way he acts ..he has one of the most loyal fans and we all love to see him on some big movies in future ,he is superb actor ..  

I never thought in my wildest dream that any tv heroin can look so beautiful with less makeup and no fancy sarees bt Akanksha Singh manages to do that with her simplicity..she is plying  mother of two kids bt she still manages to hold u ,i really like to thank the producers of nbt for taking such a simple show which is showing many complicated things of life in simple way ...and special mention of writer of show, sonal Ganatra who is so sweet that she adds every friends request of nbt fans who sometimes  become so furious when things don't go down well with them they post so many things on her time line but  she never stops them, u can see her timeline , u hardly see any of her posts it all fan posts .....

Because of 'Na bole tum na maine kuch kaha' i have came across so many wonderful people, become friends with many leaned so many things from them, i dont know for how many days show will run, i dont care what's going to happened in the end this show will always  be close to my heart..this is thanking note each and every person related to show from cast and crew to all fans thank u so much for showing all different story to mi ,one show  really make a difference :):) 

Saturday, 30 June 2012


     From Tulasi Parvati 
                   to Megha Anandi 
          (  journey of Indian telly women )    
    
                                            I may be in 6th or seventh standerd i used to watch sony and zee as only these two channels who used to show some fantastic comedy and friction drama for everyone and them came Andhi of telly called Tulasi the Idol  bahu of of tv whom everyone wanted in tr own home...kyoki was on air for many years had many leaps she was first  idol bahu from ekta kapoors Balaji tellyfilms then follwed by Parvati idol patni then tr was kumkum, kusum ,prerna a whole lot of them the gre8 Indian costume drama wr females used to cry with makeup sleep with makeup and wakeup with makeup the trend was set and everyone was following that same in same way with diffrent characters i never connected with them bt romance that whole milna bichadna saga was visual treat for eye even my brain hated that bt they become part of  my evening as i used to watched litil of everything which was on air ..ekta kapoor got the pulse of indian house wifes who r main target audience and as every mother wants to watched thr family members got used to even i did my only problem was how can wife excepts her husband even if he has extra marital affair  and came back to normality i still dont get that ....
                                                    Tulasi got big challenge from jassi who become my fav after hiphiphurry bt after many episodes even jassi become bahu biwi from independent women ...few yers bak when these shows wr onair i never watced them continousely i used to watch only when promo showed that female protagnist have stand for herself  or slaped her husband for nonsense ...in the competition of zee sony and star plus colors gave some new colors to the tv suddeny tr was wakeup call for everyone Idian telly heroin can be real and reality can be accepted by viewers ..somehow that old saas bahu saags got new dimensions .when i watced na anna is des lados few parts i was so impresd by sia's character as she stand for female foeticide and confronts ammaji in front of everyone that was gutsy charecter ..i have watched balika vadhu from first episode and it takes 1000 episodes to have my fav sean when anandi slapped her husband in front of his own family ..she just made mi happy that day ...i just love when women stands for herself  for her respect
                                                  Then their is women called Mrs. Megha Vyaas ,widow with two children she just take my heart ,even i love mohan i just love the way she stands for herself for her children ,she loves mohan bt befour falling for mohan her character  very clearly said that she is strong enough to raise her two children on her own she dont need a men in her life ...megha is strong independent who knows how to live life on her own i never really noticed script or story writes name bt Sonal Ganatra u have made me do that 
           in past tr have been shows like hasrate who have shown diffrent dimensions of women ..i dont like gopi bahu because she never stand for herself  Indian women is strong and have many beutiful shdes ... bt in the race of trp games she get completely lossed and misguided change have been seen in resent past with some gre8 strong telly heroin and on last note i relly wish mona will nt axceps pradip when he ll came back to her 

                                               when u talk about womean she more than wife bahu beti she adds many things to society I really wish in near future we ll get to see some strong women characters....
                     

                                                                                                                Anshita P